Do you “get ready” for sex?
If not, you should! Here are five ways to “Get Ready” For Sex W/ Little Effort.
If you’ve never thought about it, this is the time! And if you haven’t, again, now is the time.
There’s something about spontaneity, don’t get me wrong. Hot, animalistic sex in the blink of an eye, is sexy. No doubt about it. Just ask Alex Alexander in his post about it here. However, if you want to really “get ready” for sex, an ensemble change can lead to that “next level” sex, your partner isn’t expecting, and that we’re excited give.
Change Your Look
An outfit change before the main event is always something that can add a “next level sex vibe”, to your already sexy date.
Give them the element of surprise. Excusing yourself to the rest room and come out with something different on. Changing your clothes is just one way to transition, from one sexy vibe to the next.
Outfit Changes
Here’s the thing about an outfit change. Just like a toddler needs a transition from say, daycare to home, we as adults can use outfit changes as a way for us to transition from date, to sex.
The theme you’ll soon realize after reading this post, Five Ways to “Get Ready” for Sex W/ Little Effort, is feet ladies and gentlemen. A sexy foot will set off every single outfit, every time, no matter what you’re wearing.
IN this case, shoes. No matter your shape, size, height or color, shoes set a sexy tone. In particular, high heels.
They just do!
They don’t have to be the spiked, four-inch, or platform heels. If you’d like to keep it simple, slip on a small, chunky heel, or no heel at all.
Maybe you have a limitation and can’t walk in a heel. How would you feel about walking out in a slipper! Cozy, comfortable and sexy!
1) Fancy Your Feet
When high heels aren’t your thing, a chunky heel just isn’t your style, and slippers won’t cut it, try something to dress up your feet and your feet alone, instead.
Consider toe rings, or ankle bracelets. Maybe a henna tattoo (done the day or two in advance). Companies even make foot jewelry to string from your ankle to your toes.
With so many different ways to dress up your feet, shoes are optional.
2) Simple and Classic
If you’re going for simple and classic, try a men’s, white, button down dress shirt with high heels, a chunky wedge, or dressed up feet. Your partner will love your outfit change, and you’ll feel sexy sportin’ it.
3) Fancy and Free
Want to add a little glam to your evening without over doing it? Try a little black dress with heels or a tall boot could look amazingly sexy too. Skip the panties and you’re well on your way.
4) Easy and Easily Accessible
This outfit change is easy because you wear it right under your everyday clothes.
Match a pair of thigh-high socks with your favorite panties and matching bra. Don’t forget to fancy those feet with a sexy heel, henna, jewelry, or just plain old polished toes look great too!
5) Over Sized and Under Rated
Pull out that oversized sweater you never wear because it always falls off your shoulders. Allow the larger tops you have to serve you in a sexy and romantic way. Feel the cool air on your bare shoulder as one side hangs down your arm, and the other side, properly in place, holding up your ensemble.
Dress for the occasion
Remember ladies and gentlemen, when we “get ready” for sex, we play with ideas and experiment with thoughts to help us better achieve connection. Sure, it’s fun to be playful with sex which then adds to the connection.
So have fun!
Experiment with ideas and different ways you can feel confident in yourself while you’re about to have sex, and otherwise.
And don’t forget to fancy those feet!
Until next time, be well, and kind to one another.
