Playful Sexy Dates At Home
It may be difficult to come up with date-night ideas, but it’s not impossible. It takes a little creativity and a lot of sinfully seductive planning to pull it off, and damn it’s worth it.
Playful sexy dates can add a level of fun to your sex life and relationships. When we play, we free our minds from the noise echoing inside. This creates a sense of relaxation, which opens the door for a sexy time.
These sexy date night ideas will leave your partner feeling catered to, thought of, special. Date-nights are meant to bring us closer together, building a bond. When you try the dates I’ve laid out for you in this blog post, or at least a variation of each of them, you’re committing connected, quality time.
We all know time how valuable our time is, now don’t we?
It’s important to create focused time in a relationship, any relationship, in order to foster a space for communication, acceptance, and healing (if that be the case). Let these four sexy date night ideas help to build the bond you already share with your partner.
1. Movie night with a fort!
Remember being a kid and pulling all the blankets and sheets out of the linen closet to make a fort? If not, you missed out, and now’s your chance! If you have then you already know how fun this can be. You’ll only need three or four sheets and blankets depending on how elaborate you’d like to build your fort.
Create the mood you want to achieve while in your playful fort. If you were looking for a laid-back and chill kind of an evening, perhaps a comedy would be appropriate. Happy Gilmore is always a favorite of mine.
If you’re going for sexy and sultry; reach for Pirates xxx.
Although rated xxx, it really is light porn. This movie was released in 2005, and is hands down, one of the best porn films I’ve seen. Not that I’ve seen many, but I have seen a few. It offers a plot and relatively decent acting
If you decide to watch this one, let me know your thoughts! Not too many people are aware of it, at least that I’ve come across anyway.
Check out the four FREE downloadable PDF’s at the end of this post with guides on how you can achieve these awesome dates too!
2. Body paint each other
Body painting is a fun and creative way to get a little closer and use your creative mind at the same time.
Win. Win!
There are tons body paints out there, which can work for this activity. Some of them I’ll offer here in the free downloadable PDF at the end of this post. There are so many variations; it’s easy to get overwhelmed.
Think simply. Purchase a beginner kit and follow the instructions. You don’t have to be an artist to have fun with this. You only need a willing canvas.
Here’s a picture of how someone created a garden on this lovely lady.
3. Sexy Date Night Dinner
If a sexy date night at home doesn’t sound like something you could be into, think again. This sexy date brings with it a collection of creativity, planning, and seduction. Food has been used for centuries as a way of seduction. Heck, the Greeks used to feed one another grapes for goodness sake. We’re still using food today, and adding a little extra to enhance the mood.
Table for two (at home)
Thanks to Covid, more and more of us are staying home and becoming creative. We’re cultivating an environment for sinful seductions by taking some time to make a date meaningful and intentional.
Dress up fancy
Bring out your best jewelry and wear it! Those sexy red heels need dusting off, but still look amazing on your long legs. Take those out too and wear them!
Change the look of your dining room table.
Change up your tablecloth to look like this one here perhaps, put one on, or don’t use one at all. What ever you do, make it different. You’re creating a new experience, so make it appear new by changing out the tablecloth on your table. Simple, easy, and effective.
If your table usually has a leaf in it, take it out. If it doesn’t (and you have one) put it in. You’re just trying to switch it up and give your table a different look and feel.
Add a couple long stem candles to your table to create a more romantic vibe.
Meal Preparation
Prepare as much of your meal as possible ahead of time. This way, you’re not scrambling in the kitchen while your dressed to the nines.
For example, if you plan on a three-course meal, which I fully recommend, plan to cook simply. Plan to prepare an appetizer, entrée, and dessert. Make your appetizer, I recommend a salad, ahead of time, so all you have to do is pull it out of the fridge and be ready to dig in.
When preparing your entrée, make something in advance so all you have to do is throw your pan in the oven and pull it out. An “Instant Pot” is a solution to this not so sinful problem. If you haven’t heard of this amazing and trendy kitchen tool, listen up and invest! I say invest because anything that saves me time is worth the investment!
In addition to saving time in the kitchen, it also keeps your foods nutrients, and gives a delicious outcome.
You guessed it! The same goes for desert. There are so many awesome, easy and quick desert recipes, creating something sweet beforehand, should be easy too.
If you’re still at a loss for food ideas, download the free PDF I created with a full three-course meal guide with EASY recipes at the end of this post.
Sexy Date Night Out
When you happen to have an extra $150 (or so) consider having your sexy date night at an upscale hotel. Hotel room sex can be one of the greatest sexual experiences you’ll ever have. But it can’t be a seedy hotel, which is why I put in a price point here.
There’s a feeling you get when you walk into an upscale hotel room. You will be astounded! Hotel room sex brings such a sexy element to the already sexy vibe. Here’s how to do it.
When it’s logical, planning a date night away from the house needs to happen too. Here’s what I recommend, 100% and as often as your budget can handle it.
4. Hotel room sex
If an upscale hotel room is an option, do it! I cannot express how much fun this is! If you’ve already done it, do it again, and again, and again. Choose a different place each time and go about it with a different mindset this time. If you don’t know about mindset, you can read more about it here, in another post.
Now, Back to the hotel…Realize you won’t have ANY of the regular distractions. Like, none!
It’s actually quite amazing.
Close your eyes and imagine…well don’t close your eyes. Then you can’t finish reading this post. Seriously, though. Think about it.
- No pets to take your attention away.
- No dogs barking at the cars driving bye.
- No kids knocking on the door. No matter how hard we try to tell our kids “We need a few minutes.” they still find a reason to call upon us.
- Hotels relax the ADHD’s mind. The bed is made, no dishes in the sink, there’s no clutter, and it’s vacuumed.
- Ask a family member or friend if they’d watch your kids for two hours, maybe three. Tell them how you’re about to level up your sex life and need their help with the kids. Not only will their smiles grow, they’ll be excited to do this for you.
The only things you’ll need to bring with you, are the things you need to create the sexual experience you’re looking to achieve. Maybe some of those body paints would come in handy here! Your mind knows it’s a sex date, and remember, it always starts with the mind first.
Hotel rooms bring a clear space to be fun and adventurous, so be that!
Jump on the bed!
Mess up the sheets!
Explore the hotel’s indoor pool, hot tub, or exercise rooms. One of the best parts about a hotel is there’s nothing left that you need to clean. Pick up your stuff, and walk away.
Poof! Like you were never even there, except that you were, and the memories will last a lifetime.
Check out the four FREE downloadable PDF’s at the end of this post with guides on how you can achieve these awesome dates too!
Sexy Date Nights Unleashed
Let’s face it, I’ve heard, it’s near impossible to date, let alone find something creative to do. I wanted to write this blog offering you some ideas on how you can still be connected (without much effort), yet still have a sexy time.
All these dates I’ve described require preparation.
Yes, it takes time to be creative. And yes, it takes time to prepare.
The results are out of this world! Totally and 100% worth it. The experiences you create because of the time and effort you put into it, will absolutely build your relationships. Both sexual and not.
I understand how important it is to stay connected. Trust me, I do! I also understand how hard it’s been thanks to the mandates caused by Covid. Luckily, those are now subsiding.
Because I feel your pain, and understand the hardships since I’m facing them too, I created these free downloadable PDF’s. These step-by-step instructional outlines explain how you can create these awesome dates too. They offer specific instructions and give details on where you can purchase items.
The free downloads explain how you can create ALL four of these dates with the people you want to be closer to.
You’ll get:
- Basic how-to’s for creating a fort in your living room. Pictures will be attached.
- A menu with recipes to an easy three-course meal for your fancy dinner date.
- Places where you can purchase body paint and offer my choices of body paint based on my research.
- A link to hotels, which offer rewards programs. Each time you book a stay you earn rewards, which eventually gets you a free sexy hotel night stays.
I’ve been together with my best friend, married to my life partner, and in love with my husband for over 30 years. It is through continued dating that we’re able to benefit from communication, growth, and continue to learn for and about each other.
Reach out to me on facebook, Pinterest, or TikTok I’d love hearing about your ideas for sexy dates, and how some of the ones I’ve described have worked out for you.
Interested in a more private way to communicate? DM or email me too!
And last but not least, hotel night.
Until next time, be well, and kind to one another.
